It’s important to remind yourself that;

while giving things (presents, gifts, requests) to your children, you should remember to cultivate the formular of planting and harvesting into their understanding (Mindset).

Make them to understand that;

(if they obey your instructions, when they do good; as a reply to their parent’s instructions),

That is also when good, and God’s favor will follow them and take place in their lives…

Let your children know that;

the good they do (and the obedience they obey), will bring back good things in return as a reward…

Things to put in your mind concerning children upbringing:

Deuteronomy 6:5-7

TO PARENTS:

⁵ You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength.

⁶ “And these words which I command you today shall be in your heart.

TO YOUR CHILDREN:

⁷ You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up.

Remember that; If you are a parent, you are the second and third parental guidance to your children.

The very FIRST parent that knew your children before He gave them into your responsibility is God…

If you obey, respect, and keep God’s comandments and instructions, your children will also reflect, and be what you are to God..

But if you are disobeying God, refusing to do and keep his instructions, you too your children will disobey you.

No matter how much you demand respect and obedience from them as a parent.

Your children will reflect (mirror) what you are towards God, and how you respond to His will in mother earth…

Things to avoid:

Avoid giving things to your children as an entitlement…

Let them know that they are not entitled to get any thing good untill they prove themselves worthy of the reward…

When you have a company or business, every employee that you have hired in that company,

before you reward or promote them, you first look at their faithfulness, intergrity, obedience that they apply towards the company’s protocol, mission, rules, and terms of use…

When it comes parent’s with money (some work very hard to attain the succes, money, wealth, their legacy, name etc),

And towards their children they start to spoil them by buying every thing they want,

responding to every tantrum behavior of bad manners, complaints coming from the demands of their spoilt children..

Giving things into the lives of their children because they are entitled, (because they are their children), not knowing that they are setting them up for failing, or becoming failures in life…